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Tags: The Hook UpadvicerelationshipsdatingThe Hook-Up Hi Anna, I have been going through your old articles hoping to find the answer, but surprisingly no one has asked you yet! I just woke up...
Tags: The Hook UpadvicerelationshipsdatingThe Hook-Up Hi Anna, I have been going through your old articles hoping to find the answer, but surprisingly no one has asked you yet! I just woke up...
about 1 hour ago
Exercise is hard and boring, but these are some apps that make it a little more reasonable.
Exercise is hard and boring, but these are some apps that make it a little more reasonable.
about 2 hours ago
Tags: Girl on Girls on FilmIMDbRoom in RomeMovie Reviewsvideo In her vlog Girl on Girls on Film, Dana Piccoli watches terrible lesbian movies so that you don't have to. In this episode, Dana...
Tags: Girl on Girls on FilmIMDbRoom in RomeMovie Reviewsvideo In her vlog Girl on Girls on Film, Dana Piccoli watches terrible lesbian movies so that you don't have to. In this episode, Dana...
about 2 hours ago
Just as a refresher, it's currently the year 2013. It's a year in which, when I was a kid, I was sure we would have shoes that tied themselves, hoverboards, and holographic movie theaters. But alas, dudes are still getting paid to wr...
Just as a refresher, it's currently the year 2013. It's a year in which, when I was a kid, I was sure we would have shoes that tied themselves, hoverboards, and holographic movie theaters. But alas, dudes are still getting paid to write articles like this in major publications. In it, entitled "For second time, woman gives Chicago athlete one-finger salute," John Kass falls ass-over-heels onto his fainting couch because a woman's been photographed flipping off a man. In public. His piece seems.... like he's half-joking? It's hard to tell, really, as this sort of "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" stuff is so mainstream and bought-into that I never take for granted that people who don't think or write about gender regularly are joking when they start to opine about gender. For, he writes: "Like many American men, I've been trained — with the rat cage on my head and without — to believe with all my heart that women are better than men. What's disturbing to me is that East Coast females may be sinking into a new public idealized vulgarity, sort of like those shrieking fishwives of the 18th century." In addition to the use of "females" as a noun, often a telling word choice that, what I'm most struck by is Kass' apparent ignorance of women, as he admits that he unthinkingly thinks of women as being monolithically, categorically "better than men." Better at what, doesn't specify, but the context suggests that he means morally rather than say, intellectually or athletically." It's a play on the notion that women are the tamers of society, existing to keep male wildebeests in line. It also further entitles men to engage in aggression and vulgarity because, after all, women are just "better" than men so whuddaryagunnado about hockey players getting in actual fights during games and whatnot? I mean, does Kass ever get his boxers in a bunch over the many vulgar displays and, I don't know, sexual assaults that male athletes engage in, or is this - a woman flipping someone off - his big battle in life? I'm currently reading Charlotte Perkins Gilman's novel Herland, about three men who stumble upon an all-female society. These men are indoctrinated with sexist teachings from their 1915 American society and, thus, have quite the culture clash in their every interaction with these women who are not defined by mainstream sexist tropes. The readers see how, in fact, these men not only don't hold women in as high regard as they insist, but that these men actually don't know very much about women at all. I guess that point is still relevant 100 years later.
about 3 hours ago
Tags: Morning BrewThe FostersAmber HeardKatee SackhoffChristine QuinnEllen DeGeneresPortia de RossiJenna LyonsMulholland DriveSally RideMartina NavratilovaBillie Jean KingGay and Lesbian Sports...
Tags: Morning BrewThe FostersAmber HeardKatee SackhoffChristine QuinnEllen DeGeneresPortia de RossiJenna LyonsMulholland DriveSally RideMartina NavratilovaBillie Jean KingGay and Lesbian Sports...
about 3 hours ago
Uncategorisable voices "furnished her musical imagination and gave her hope" as Tica grew up and developed as a songwriter.
Uncategorisable voices "furnished her musical imagination and gave her hope" as Tica grew up and developed as a songwriter.
about 4 hours ago
Tags: televisionTV recapsPretty Little LiarsWAP On any other show, seeing Paige and Emily act so deeply, desperately in love with each other would be the all-time highlight, but leave it to...
Tags: televisionTV recapsPretty Little LiarsWAP On any other show, seeing Paige and Emily act so deeply, desperately in love with each other would be the all-time highlight, but leave it to...
about 4 hours ago
Today is Juneteenth Day, which marks the emancipation of Black slaves in Texas in 1865, and celebrates emancipation generally. It’s a good day to reflect both on racism and on the many overlapping issues of social justice in our co...
Today is Juneteenth Day, which marks the emancipation of Black slaves in Texas in 1865, and celebrates emancipation generally. It’s a good day to reflect both on racism and on the many overlapping issues of social justice in our country. Our country (heck, our world) still grapples with racism—and racism intersects with issues of ableism, with LGBT equality, and more. The fight for Black civil rights does not exactly parallel that of LGBT civil rights, but there are similarities, as this touching post at The Grio by Nadine Smith of Equality Florida makes clear. I don’t wish to draw comparisons, though, as much as to say we should figure out how we can each use our particular backgrounds and experiences across all the parts of our identities to work together for the betterment of all. I encourage all parents to share the story of Juneteenth Day with your kids, even if it’s not something you typically celebrate. (My son’s school doesn’t mention it at all, as far as I know.) Here’s a brief summary from the Library of Congress, if you need a cheat sheet. If you do celebrate, please leave a comment and share how you do so! It’s also helpful, while waiting for what could be a milestone in civil rights (the Supreme Court’s upcoming ruling on marriage equality) to remember the successful milestones that have been reached before. Flexing that moral arc. . . .
about 6 hours ago
This dapper WNBA hotshot has more than just jerseys-- we're stealing Brittney Griner's style.
This dapper WNBA hotshot has more than just jerseys-- we're stealing Brittney Griner's style.
about 6 hours ago
All my life I have to admit I have been attracted to women, but I follow normal social roles and I have dated, been engaged as well as have a child by a man….Ultimately I am unhappy, but I live this way to  please my very Catholic ...
All my life I have to admit I have been attracted to women, but I follow normal social roles and I have dated, been engaged as well as have a child by a man….Ultimately I am unhappy, but I live this way to  please my very Catholic family. I have never enjoyed sex from a man and yes I find men attractive, but not in the same was a heterosexual woman would. Where other women are like OMG I have to have him…I’m thinking he’s ok looking. As for sex with a man I lay there an fake moan and then tell the man that it was great when in all actuality I’m wishing that I was not laying next to him at all. Most of my relationships have ended because of me. Men state that they don’t want a girlfriend that is not affectionate. Truth is I want to scream I don’t want to be affectionate with you, because I like women. When I do sleep with a man I have to watch lesbian porn, because any other sexual contact bothers me; in fact when I’m done sleeping with a man I get dressed and treat him like it was nothing. I guess I’m tired of living this way and I want to live my life like I know I should. I have had a few relationships with women and they fair much better for me one because I am willing to be affectionate and I really enjoy the sex. Being a sociologist you would think that I would not have problems with this. I tell my clients and people that I encounter to be true to them and at the end I am not true to myself. (Such a Hypocrite). At this point because I have a child it is more difficult to come out of the closet and because of my son’s health issues I really need my family support and the fear of them turning their back on me is my biggest issue. (Although I am almost 31, I remember my mother’s statement when taking me to college “Don’t come back a lesbian”) I thought to myself too late you should have said that in JR High! I guess I am so use to being the child that never disappoints….but I’m thinking that its time to disappoint. I really don’t know what to do can’t stay in the closet forever. The post Let me out of here…but I just cant! appeared first on The Lesbian Question.
about 12 hours ago