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Raising women to be leaders, an article by Carol Hymowitz, in the Jan 12, 2007 WSJ, features the four Sullivan sisters: Denise Sullivan, president of Campbell, USA; Maggie Sullivan Wildrotter, CEO of Citizens Communication; Colleen Bastkowski, regional vp at Expedia; and Andrea Doelling, former senior vp at AT&T Wireless. This kind of success among brothers is rare, and among sisters is phenomenal, says the story. In senior posts men outnumber women by almost 6 to 1. The sisters had the benefit of being raised by two professionally successful parents who took an early interest in their futures. They were taught to aim high, start early, analyze their mistakes and try again....they continued to help each other as they grew. In short, they had good advisers and did not succeed alone....Their father "imbued them with his intense work ethic and encouraged them to be independent and determined and to cultivate big goals." Their mother taught them "ambition is part of femininity." Kathleen Rich-New Contrast this to the story I read today of a man arrested for abusing his young son, by beating him after he lost a football game. He influenced his son, but not in a way we'd like. Dad's influence Dad was an AT & T exec. Dad took the girls to the office before "Take your daughter to work day." Dad showed getting ahead requires changing jobs frequently to gain broad experience. Dad asked the girls to read and write a report on a book each week. He also expected A's in school. Dad shared what he knew about business, including marketing, how products go launched and setting profit-margin goals. Dad enforced early morning exercise. Mom's influence Mom became a real estate mogul after her youngest daughter started school. Mom made them analyze their mistakes and try again. Both parents Encouraged their involvement in extra-curricular activities. Made them earn their allowance as teenagers. Carol Hymowitz I'm a believer in expecting my kids to do their best. By this I don't mean putting excruciatingly long hours into things that are not their talents, but to develop their own talents to the best of their ability at their own pace. It can't be forced. A child incapable of A's cannot get A's. And it is nearly impossible to get all A's in subjective subjects, such as English or creative writing. It's easy to see if a math problem is right or wrong, not so easy to see whether a paper is as good as it gets. One of my Chinese children is a hard worker. She either gets A's or D's depending on if she understands it yet. She gets stronger each year. She is one who didn't/doesn't like to read, but again, she is developing this at her own pace. I would have had to force her as a toddler to listen to a book being read. So, I didn't read to her very often. I'd try it every so often, then let it go. I didn't want her to associate reading with anything but happiness. I knew she would read once she got in school, and she would listen to books in a group. I suspect part of this is not having books that interested her yet, and not having the reading skills to read what she might like. OTOH, she is doing a more than lovely job playing the cello. Practicing on her own and delighting in it. She is the only one who smiled ear to ear through her whole performance -- she was genuinely happy. It was obvious she was in her zone. I was raised to be a career woman, but my role model was my mother who was a SAHM. I have worked, all except for two weeks between my first degree and my first job, since I was 11. I've been in a corporation, owned my own business(es), and then managed to have a career and be at home. At the time I was in corporate life, there wasn't any flexibility, despite the talk they talked -- it wasn't walked. What surprised me was having my first child. Who knew that a career would then take a back seat. It took more to raise him than working in a career, because it took all of me. I realized then that I could

Talk about a change of pace! Just trying to use up my haul in NYX Lips to show the stash as I wear them. Rapture NYX Lips This is almost a black red on me. It looks lighter here than it does in RL. It reminds me a lot of Chanel's Vamp. What do you think? Karin Originally posted 2009-05-09 14:59:08.

Zig Ziglar has written a new book with 365 quotes, one for everyday. I haven't seen it yet, but I have seen his inspirational movie, and I recommend it. Take a few minutes and read these quotes, while the music moves over you. You won't regret it! Karin Originally posted 2009-01-07 20:47:46.

Swedish denim entrepreneur turned-photographer Johan Lindeberg shot his pal GISELE over an easy-breezy two hour period not for a big campaign, not for big bucks, but really, it turns out, for the love of jeans. "She called me," he said. And it's really no surprise: everyone from Daria Werbowy to Carolyn Murphy (who turned us on to the ultra-high-waisted, ankle-zippered Jeans 8 last summer) stockpile skinnies, straight-legs, and leggings at his SoHo boutique. We swung by this week to catch up with the Brazilian supermodel and get her denim rules of attraction.  What do you look for in jeans? "I like when they make a nice shape on my booty. I like that. But they have to be very comfortable, as well. I need to be able to move in them, you know? They can’t be too stiff. I like tight but they have to be comfortable. I have to be free and flexible." Denim shorts or denim pants? "Both. I love shorts baggy, but really short. But, I also love pants… Jeans are pretty much all I wear. I’m not a dress person. I’m more of a tomboy." High-waisted or low-waisted? "It depends. Right now, I like high-waisted. It’s chic. For jean shorts, I like both high and low, it depends, but mainly higher. I’m going for high-waisted lately. It makes the legs look longer." Black or blue? "I have jeans in every color: black is always basic and it’s the easiest color to wear but I love white, too. And gray—I love gray." Your own jeans, or your man's jeans? "My husband’s would be impossible! They wouldn’t fit me. I do like baggy jeans for the summer. In the summer, you wear things that are easier on top… I like easy, simple shapes on top and then something looser on the bottom I think is cool.  In the winter, you’re already so bulky on top so it’s nice to have something tighter on the bottom." Makeup or au natural? "I really don’t wear makeup that much, unless I have to go somewhere. I feel that it’s better for my skin to breathe. Anything I do is very basic; I like RMS makeup. But I think the best thing to do is to find a really great natural sunblock." Tan or no tan? "I usually go on the beach from, like, 7 to 8:30 or 9 AM, then again from 4:30 to 6 PM. I never go in the sun ever, under any circumstances, between 9 AM and 3 PM. I just don’t. It’s too hot." —as told to ITG Gisele Bündchen photographed by Emily Weiss at BLK DNM in New York on May 22, 2013.

I think this is very dear! Wouldn't you be touched (not to mention proud) if this was your son! (He is Suzanne Brockman's son.) Karin www.savvythinker.com Originally posted 2011-12-20 13:23:04.

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This week marks a decade since we last saw Buffy, Willow, Xander, Angel (swoon), Spike (MEGA swoon), and the rest of the Buffy The Vampire Slayer gang battling blood suckers and their monster brethren in every single way imaginable. (The series ended its seven-year run on UPN in 2003. :-/) Not only was Buffy a badass with a crossbow, she knew her way around a butterfly clip, too. Sure, Daenerys may win in the braid/twist department, but Buffy could work an updo, minidress, and choker while sitting in the local graveyard, waiting to stake newly sprung un-dead before heading right back to The Bronze. We watched as Buffy and Willow's late-'90s "big" hair got spiked and flat-ironed, their brown-pencil-lined lips giving way to lip gloss and frosted lids. It was an era before skinny jeans (we promise, such a time/place did exist) and ironic mustaches—the guys wore loose-fitting jeans, tight shirts, the occasional trenchcoat (sometimes in leather—hot), and gobs of gel (and lots of bleach, in Spike's case). We saw Willow blossom (ha, pun!) from a high-school geek wearing matronly jean skirts to a hot college co-ed sporting confidence, some magic skills, and a sassy 'do that left many a lady vying for her attention. Side note: who didn’t (and doesn't) love Sarah Michelle Gellar and Freddie Prinze, Jr.? Way to win life, SMG. This Memorial Day Weekend, consider taking some time to get (re)acquainted with Buffy The Vampire Slayer. All episodes are available to stream on Netflix, so you have no excuse. And in the meantime, check out the gang’s best looks. P.S. If you get really obsessed (which we predict you will), try some Angel, the David-Boreanaz-fronted Buffy spinoff.

In my mind, the perfect man will be a modern-day knight in shining armor with a twinkle in his eye. (Come on, New York, show him to me!) I would like to imagine that this yet-unseen being will desire a similar sparkle in my big(ish) green eyes. And while there is some sort of scientific explanation behind the so-called “twinkle”—something to do with your pupils dilating upon seeing the person that's currently stealing your affection—I figure it can't hurt to accentuate this involuntary optic action with makeup. And I've found the perfect product: Ramy’s new OMG! Over Mascara Glitter & Liner. I tested out the glitter mascara/eyeliner combo this past weekend at The Great Googamooga, the ultimate in Brooklyn hipster and wannabe-hipster events (I will leave it up to your own opinion as to which category I inhabit). The three-day music/food extravaganza included shows by The Flaming Lips and the Yeah Yeah Yeahs and a crazy amount of snack stands, all situated in the middle of Prospect Park*. But my first step to enjoying the evening? Makeup application just inside the gates! After receiving a lecture from a security guard (who, apparently, does not share my affinity for twinkling eyes), I sat down in the grass and slicked on an oh-so-fashionable cat eye. Glitter, once a favorite of 12 year-old me, is a substance that I now stay away from, as I think it falls somewhere between tacky and tweeny. That said, I've found if you embrace the not-so-chicness of a product (whether it be eyeliner, nail polish, shoes, a fanny pack, etc.), it becomes less lame and actually kind of cool. And for those of us who aren't confident using liquid liner, a sheer glitter gel is a great place to start; it makes the application process easy and basically mistake-free. But the best part of Ramy’s product? The duel-use wand: you no longer have to choose between glittered eyeliner and glittered mascara. How cool is that??!!! (Seriously though, why is this not more of a thing? I’m sure it has to do with the different formulae for liners vs. mascaras, but I’m begging you, product designers out there, please create this in a black, non-sparkle version.) Anywho, I wore my eyeliner/mascara with pride last Friday and did not seem to get any, “Are you out of your mind?!” looks from anyone. However, a warning: though there may be an intentionally glittered area (the cat-eye line, in my case), you'll probably find yourself sparkling from more than just your eye after a few hours. Cheeks, nose, eyebrows... It is an occupational hazard that glitterati must accept. And while I didn't meet my prince that night, it probably had more to do with the gluttonous amount of food I consumed than the allure of my ocular area. But, #YOLO. Thumbs up for glitter mascara/liner! P.S. I'm working on my smizing. I have a new respect for the ladies of ANTM. *Not-so-fun fact: Prospect Park is home to fifty species of butterflies. Sure, you might be thinking, “That’s amazing! I want to go see the butterflies!” But that is where you and I differ. Butterflies are the worst, only falling behind spiders, wasps, and cicadas. I’m weird, what can I say. —Elizabeth Brockway Photos by David Sabshon.

When it comes to anti-aging, our main priority always seems to be the face. That’s smart – it’s the first thing that people notice about us. But evidence of that little number on your driver’s license can pop up basically everywhere. In fact, hands age faster than our faces. One day they look young and beautiful, and the next, you can pass for the Grim Reaper. Dr. Paul Carniol, a professor at New Jersey Medical School, has some tips to help. As a plastic surgeon he sees more women resorting to plumping treatments, fat transfers, hyaluronic acid gels, and chemical peels than ever before. Sound a little intense? Let’s get back to basics. Sunscreen is obviously a no-brainer (year-round!). Try adding skin care products to your regimen that includes peptides to prevent your skin from thinning and antioxidants to keep away those pesky dark spots. Dr. Carniol says it best – “Prevention is the best medicine.” Image Credit: New York Times

The month of May is coming to a close and, with that, we’ll soon say goodbye to Emerald Madness. What that means is we’re one step closer to crowning the best emerald nail polish. After a very close Elite Eight battle (some races were won by just a few votes), we’re down to the Final Four. Click to view full size To recap, Emerald Madness is a March Madness style tournament pitting the best emerald shades against each other throughout the month of May. The winner will be revealed on May 31st. Thank you to everyone who voted last week to push their favorites onward in the bracket. Keep their fight alive by continuing to vote. Reaching the Final Four means that, by finish, the colors still in the competition are already winners. They have won their division and that, in itself, is a victory. Now we’ll see which finish truly holds your heart; glitters, cremes, shimmers or holos. With two Zoyas battling each other, it’s sure to be an interesting vote. Final Four voting will close on Monday, May 27th and the Championship vote will start on Tuesday, May 28th. If you are unable to view the survey CLICK HERE to cast your vote on the survey site. Please enable JavaScript to view survey Encourage your friends to vote for your favorite colors using the hashtag #EmeraldMadness or [TWEET THIS] If your votes were bracket choices, in a traditional NCAA bracket, how many would you have right so far? I clearly should never bet on such a thing as I only got 18/28 right.